Teenage Problems/Issues in Adolescence
Adolescence is one of the toughest stages of development for both the maturing teen as well as for parents and can lead to some teenage problems. It is a time when everything can seem to be out of control. As parents, it can be difficult to adjust to the changes taking place, and yet, supporting your teenager through this important stage is vital. Being a teenager is often associated with moodiness, insecurity, impulsiveness and rebellion. Teenagers are also characterized by odd sleeping patterns, awkward growth spurts, bullying, acne and slobbish behavior. Some of these things can create tension in relationships, especially family relationships.
Some teenagers have a more intense struggle and can exhibit more troubling behaviors which are cause for additional concern and prompt a call for some professional support through counseling services. If any of the following behaviors are present in your teenager, please consider seeking help:
- Talk of suicide — It is important to have this assessed, especially if any specifics of a plan are mentioned. Never assume this is attention seeking behavior.
- Symptoms of depression — Adolescents can have different symptoms than adults. Parents should pay attention to the following:
- Any troubling changes in teen’s eating, sleeping or social life
- Irritability/reactivity — including extreme sensitivity to rejection or failure
- Vague physical complaints — such as headaches
- School absences or drop in grades
- Bouts of crying or shouting
- Reckless behavior — depressed teens are more at risk to self-medicate with drugs and alcohol, or promiscuous behavior.
- Self-mutilation — The cutting or burning of self is a definite “red flag” that a teen may be trying extreme measures to get relief from emotional pain and needs to be assessed for depression or other difficulties. This could potentially become habit forming and the teen needs help developing non-destructive coping skills.
- Eating disorders — Be aware of any troubling changes in eating habits, including extreme restrictions with food, binge eating and any type of purging (vomiting, laxatives, excessive exercise). Weight may still be in normal range with some of these destructive and potentially life-threatening behaviors.
- Drug/alcohol abuse — If a parent suspects that drug and alcohol abuse is becoming a chronic pattern, a professional assessment can be a life-saving intervention.
- Anxiety disorders — These can include panic attacks or social anxiety. Any chronic worry/anxiety that is present more days than not and is somehow interfering with functioning level socially or academically.
- High level of conflict — Chronic family or social conflict over a period of several weeks could be a potential indicator of multiple difficulties, whether it is depression or unresolved family issues.
If you have any questions about your teenager, please give us a call at (602) 633-4032 and we would be happy to have a free complimentary consultation about whether your child might benefit from counseling services.